WE'LL FIND YOUR TRUE LOVE

Join our dating service to meet someone special

By NAOISE WOLSEY

IT'S a quest as old as time itself, but the search for true love has maybe never been as tricky as in the hectic 21st century. Between juggling careers and spending much of our time on our own in cars getting from A to B, many of us have become too busy for love.

On top of that, the changing face of traditional meeting places like pubs and nightclubs have made it even harder for sparks to fly across a crowded room. Add to that the pressures of modern living and career building and it's easy to see why more people are turning to dating services to locate that man or woman of their dreams.

For years the Sunday World personal ads have been matching lonely hearts all over Ireland. But our relaunched Sunday World dating pages have caused a sensation and are being flooded with messages from men and women who are looking for love.

The feedback from satisfied customers has been incredible, proving that many of us are struggling to meet people the old-fashioned ways.

"About 70 per cent of the letters I get are from people who say they are feeling lonely," says Sunday World agony Aunt Maura O'Neill.

"Whether they are just out of a relationship or haven't been in one for a very long time, people are always asking me how they can meet other people.

"The small ads are very traditional but I think they're still very relevant and a great way for people who are shy or having trouble with dating to get themselves out there in a safe way."

And it's not just 20-somethings who are relying on a little help with their love life. Ads appearing in the paper on any given day feature ages ranging from people in their 20s to people in their 60s, proving the dating scene can be difficult at any time of life.

There are ads from busy professionals, widows and widowers who are finding it difficult to start playing the field again, and single mums whose hands are full enough trying to balance work and kids, never mind a love life on top of that.

And while you may not instantly fall head over heels in love with your first date - in fact, there's every chance you won't - there is a possibility that you might strike it lucky, or at least have some fun and good conversation along the way.

Fancy

Signing up is free and after that there are thousands of ads to peruse at your leisure until you find one that takes your fancy.

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Testimonials

One lucky singleton who placed a personal ad with Sunday World Dating was so happy with the results that she doesn't plan on placing any more ads in the future.

"Please can you remove me from this service as I have met someone and we have gone on our first date?

"We have found out that we have so much in common it is quite scary, and we will be seeing each other again soon.

"Thank you for helping me find my perfect person. I hope that there will be some more lucky people who find their perfect person."

And another user who also wishes to remain anonymous wrote to the service to tell them of her extraordinary success with the site.

"Just like to say a big thank you. We met through the service and are getting married in July next year."

Irish couples have been getting set up like this for decades, whether it has been at the Lisdoonvarna matchmaking festival, or with a service like the Knock marriage bureau.

So, if you find yourself looking for love in all the wrong places, or simply not having the time to look at all, you may be able to find your very own Tarzan or Jane with the help of an ad.

"How simple and effective. No more trawling round pubs and clubs, just sit at home and find your match. Absolutely brilliant!" - Janice.

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For Sunday World Republic of Ireland Readers

JOIN TODAY by phone 1800 947 130* - Joining is FREE

REPLY by phone 1580 411 500*

RETRIEVE messages 1580 411 501*

DATING text match

If you'd like to chat to like minded girls by text, just text FIND to 57800* now.

There are lots of girls online ready to text back.

HELP required?

Call 0818 286 620 OR email us at dating@phonovation.com

Terms

CALL CHARGES*: 1580 calls cost €2.40/min. 1800 Calls are FREE. Other Networks & Mobiles will vary. 57800 texts cost €2.50 per message received.

BE SENSIBLE: Meet in a public place and tell someone else where you are going .Dial 141 before returning a call to retain your confidentiality.

GUIDELINES: We reserve the right to refuse or edit any ad for any reason. The advertiser assumes complete liability for the content of all replies to any advertisement or recorded message and for any claims made against this newspaper as a result thereof. The advertiser agrees to indemnify and hold this newspaper harmless from all costs, expenses, liabilities and damages resulting from or caused by the publication or recording placed by the advertiser or any reply to any such advertisement.

DATA PROTECTION: Service provided by Phonovation PO BOX 6, Dun laoghaire, Co.Dublin. Helpline 0818 286 620. We will collect the details you provide and may send you details of other services and events operated by us. WC 01 0808

For Sunday World Northern Ireland Readers

JOIN TODAY by phone 0800 158 3015* - Joining is FREE

REPLY by phone 0906 199 8150*

RETRIEVE messages 0906 199 8151*

DATING text match
Send CHAT823 to 80080 and start chatting today!

Are you too busy to call? Always on the move? Don't have time to find a partner? Well, this is the service for you! Text match is a fast and effective way of finding a new partner and has the convenience of only using texts!

Send CHAT823 to 80080 and start chatting today!

VIEW / UPLOAD pictures

A photo will increase your chances of finding your perfect match. Once you have registered simply send in your photo to 0779 366 6363 followed by your pin & box number. If an ad has a Photo Icon next to it, then the advertiser has sent in their photo. To receive a copy of the photo to your mobile phone, all you have to do is text: PIC247(space)mailbox number and send to 88833.

HELP required?

Call 0871 434 4131 OR email us at dating@phonovation.com

Terms

CALL CHARGES*: 0906 calls cost £1.50/min. 0800 calls are free from a BT landline. Other Networks & Mobiles will vary. Text 80080/88300 £1.50 per message, min 2 messages. 88833 texts £1.50 per msg. To use this service your mobile must be compatible, if not contact your Network Provider. To unsubscribe to text alerts, text STOP DATING to 83426. For full T&Cs go to www.localdates.co.uk.

BE SENSIBLE: Meet in a public place and tell someone else where you are going. Dial 141 before returning a call to retain your confidentiality.

GUIDELINES: We reserve the right to refuse or edit any ad for any reason. The advertiser assumes complete liability for the content of all replies to any advertisement or recorded message and for any claims made against this newspaper as a result thereof. The advertiser agrees to indemnify and hold this newspaper harmless from all costs, expenses, liabilities and damages resulting from or caused by the publication or recording placed by the advertiser or any reply to any such advertisement.

DATA PROTECTION: Service provided by Phonovation PO BOX 6, Dun laoghaire.Co.Dublin. Helpline 0871 434 4131. We will collect the details you provide and may send you details of other services and events operated by us. WC 01 0808

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PERSONAL AD ABBREVIATIONS

DATING can be complicated enough without getting bogged down in what can seem like personal ad gobbledegook. Here's our quick glossary of personal ad abbreviations.

  • AL - Animal Lover
  • BBW - Big, beautiful woman
  • F - Female
  • G - Gay (as in SGM - Single gay male)
  • GSOH - Good sense of humour
  • LDR - Long distance relationship
  • LTR - Long term relationship
  • M - Male
  • ND - Non Drinker
  • NS - Non-smoker
  • OHAC - Own house and car
  • P - Professional
  • S - Single
  • SD - Social Drinker
  • WLTM - Would like to meet

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TOP TEN TIPS FOR WRITING PERSONAL ADS

  1. IF YOU ARE not a busty blonde supermodel or a mega-rich George Clooney look-alike, don't pretend you are. Honesty is the best policy.
  2. Be yourself. Let your personal ad reflect your personality. Adopting a romantic persona will attract the wrong type of person if you are a pragmatic type looking for a hiking partner.
  3. Be positive. Putting down 'I am looking for a kind man, with a fantastic sense of humour' works far better than 'don't contact me if you aren't kind and don't have a sense of humour'.
  4. Be creative. Simply listing your age, sex and location isn't going to grab anyone's attention. Offer a witty comment, clever observation or descriptive line in your ad.
  5. Use personal ad terminology. Some ads will have limited space, so use abbreviations like SWF (single white female) and GSOH (good sense of humour).
  6. Be open minded. You never know what package love will come in. Being too specific on your requirements may mean you will let your perfect match slip through your fingers.
  7. Don't be negative or too hard on yourself. You have many great qualities to offer a future companion. If you are stuck on what you have to offer, ask a close friend.
  8. Don't be bitter. There is no need to write about previous relationships in your personal ads. The reader wants to learn more about you, not how unlucky in love you are.
  9. Be Safe. For that first meeting, arrange to meet in a public place. Never accept an offer to be picked up at your house. Make sure a friend knows where you are and who you are with.
  10. Don't give up! It's unlikely that you'll meet your soulmate on your very first date, but persevere. Eventually you'll find the right person for you.

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